Who Can Answer This Question?

I spent my long weekend refurbishing and replenishing myself esthetically and internally as well as relaxing and having a good time. Now I wouldnt consider myself a jam rat or someone who is in the club on a constant basis however I do enjoy going out. So I ended up at 6 Degrees on sunday night for Nostalgia. Did the usual and ordered my drink (non-alcoholic) as soon as I got in and then found my 'spot'. This is a question that has plagued me for a long time and since I now have a forum to get multiple 'answers' I felt that I should write about it. So can someone please answer this... why do men STARE all night long in the club and NEVER make an attempt to communicate??? Im not sure how that works... If I see someone and I find them attractive either I notice, acknowledge and move on or if its someone I desire to talk to, Ill initiate conversation (if applicable: no girl/girlfriend). For instance ... when I first started working at this particular firm, I was outside on my lunch sitting in the sun. A man walked past me from behind so all I saw was his back shoulders and walk... and that was all I needed to see...I stalked that man for 5 downtown blocks on one of those 'heat advisory' days. And this time I didnt feel like making the first move so I just set up the 'play' for him to approach me... (I love being a woman) and of course plan worked... Never went anywhere still but thats not the point... The point is: I saw something I wanted so I went after it, made it see me, it ended up liking what it seen and it went after what it wanted (me) instead of just staring like Im the bearded lady with a brazilian wax in the club. That was the main question of this column but now we may as well cover a few other things... Ladies...answer me this: Are mini-knapsacks in the club or ANYWHERE still stylish?.... because there was a GROWN ASS WOMAN in the club last night with a mini-knapsack and I call it a knapsack because it was the one with the flap-close top... I guess this issue is similar to the scrunchy issue on that episode of Sex and The City. And what about being aware of your surroundings in the club. Its a given that certain parties have more people than others and the more the merrier, but ummm why is it that some girls dont pay attention to where they decide to post up in proximity to others already in the area. Case in point... I was standing at the bar on sunday waiting for my second beverage and a friend of the girl standing next to me came to stand with her... Now Im sure the girl that came by had more than a few drinks or maybe not but ....HELLO....PERSONAL BUBBLE... lol... sorry thats more of just a personal complaint than a plaguing question.... probably because she was really sweaty and she kept rubbing on me..ugh. ew. so yes. Oh and by the way.. sunday was another moment of proof to my whole 'plain jane/wifey' theory. But whatever such as life but please people, wtf is up with the stare no talk 'game'... is that the new way to pick up girls? Did pick-up lines get so wack that men have now resorted to saying nothing at all or am I the breaded lady with an exposed brazlian wax in the club???