So I'm gonna write this and it has the potential to be hypocritcal for the simple fact that I can't say I NEVER have met anyone from online and I cant say that I NEVER will...but seriously....The likelihood of me going to meet every Tom, Dick and Harry that asks...is SLIM TO NONE!....
And of course everyone's first reaction is...Dont be scared... we can meet at a public place or.... don't worry I'm not a psycho... well isnt that what EVERYONE SAYS??? And let it be known... I am not afraid to meet anyone, I can handle myself VERY well, try me and you'll find out or for reference, ask some of them girls from high school that got on my bad side or even my EX... so fear is NOT the issue.... Here is the issue... and this also goes for why I dont give out my number....I'm gonna be nice and frank...
I'm sure alot of people on facebook and other online "areas" are very nice etc... but I have who I have in my life already...my close friends and my family...I dont feel the need to expand that circle for the simple fact that not everyone can be trusted (ppl talk 2 fuckin much), people are highly ANNYOING and I'm an extremely BUSY person, and I sure some are laughing to themselves wondering "how busy could you be if your on FB 24/7"....and my answer is...VERY FUCKING BUSY!... So do not take it personal, but I am very happy with how many ppl and who is in my life already, I barely have time to keep up with them so I have no intentions of widening that circle...There are exceptions to this note but do not get bright and think that you HAVE to be an exception because YOU THINK you should be...So please... Do not HARASS me for my phone number or to come hang out chill and kick it... cuz I wont budge...I was born in the year of the OX and I'm a Leo...aka: fuck off it aint happening....LOL...just playing about the fuck off part. But look at it this way and I'm trying to be humble about this....if you had a shit load of ppl always asking for your number and every time they claimed that they're not stalkers or annoying and you gave it out...what do YOU think would happen... I got asked the other day, Whats the worst that could happen (giving out my #)....the answer is... The worst that could happen is another annoying fuck could have my number and never get the point to stop calling it.. so to save myself from myself...I DONT GIVE IT OUT....
p.s- just a little side story and no offense to the person this involves nor will I name names but maybe they will read this and be able to see what they did from a different persepective and realize they basically shot themselves in the foot. So this guy asked for my number the other day... I'm sure that day was NOT the first time and of course I said no...So he persisted by asking "Whats the worst that could happen?" and he went on and on and on...and told me how he is not annoying or a stalker etc...but ummm what am I supposed to think when I have already said NO and told you i'm at work and no longer having this convo but yet your still going on and on and ON trying to convince me to do something I already know I'm not gonna do.... wtf would happen if I gave you the number and decided I wanted you to stop calling...I can only imagine...OR how about the guy that blocked me in at the gas station and asked for my #? Of course I said NOPE... and he proceed to try and trick me, by giving me his number and then telling me to dial him so he could make sure I have the right #...then when THAT didnt work he decided to say "well how about this....we exchange numbers and if you dont call me in a week.....I'll call you...." WHAT THE FUCK KINDA SENSE DOES THAT MAKE??? Anyways. I'm done on this subject....*Mizz sits in stupid anticipation of the next ass to ask after reading this...* (sorry about any grammatical or spelling mistakes...will correct later)
THIS HAS NEVER BEEN DONE BUT JUST CUZ I WANT EVERYONE TO READ THIS... I AM PASTING THE OTHER NOTE IN HERE SO YA'LL GET IT ONE SHOT... SO HERE.....
Ok....this what Kevon had to say about my latest note and as everyone will see....HE read what he wanted to read....And I will be going through everything HE said along with "highlighting" what I said in that note...
KEVON:
The worst thing u said in that note was thaur a leo and from my experience i know that leos r l
LIARS u will or have me somone on facebook and theres nuttin wrong wit it there r some nice guys out there that would prolly end up runnin from YOU u need to realize that ur the one accepting niggaz friend requests so its half ur fault 4 lettin dem crazy niggaz get at u
and also u should keep an open mind about meetin new ppl becuz the guy of u dreams could be right around the corner and u would jus be pushin them away (bout u have everything u need in ur life already) thats some ignorant shit to say im prettsure u aint more than 23 yrs old and in ur young life ur gonna be meetin plenty more ppl
ty
MY RESPONSE:
It's soo funny that the worst thing I said is that I'm a leo, which apparently now makes me a liar...thats a bit presumptuous, sterotypical, ignorant AND CLOSED MINDED to think that but whatever.... If you had taken the time to read the first few lines of that note you would NOT have missed:
"So I'm gonna write this and it has the potential to be hypocritcal for the simple fact that I can't say I NEVER have met anyone from online and I cant say that I NEVER will"
Also, if a guy chooses to RUN FROM ME...thats all well and good, because I probably did something on purpose to make him do so for my own benefit.... Why do I accept friends requests INCLUDING YOURS??? I have nothing to hide in my life, if people enjoy looking at my pictures and reading my blogs, thats cool, I quite enjoy that and that is also my way of meeting new people....without physically meeting new people. And like the above quote states, I will never say never because thats NOT realistic...but at the same time...would YOU meet EVERY single girl that asked you to or would YOU give out your number to everyone that asks??? OBVIOUSLY NOT... and if you said yes... then I guess by your books your a leo...And may I make it VERY CLEAR.... NOT ONCE in the entire note did I ever refer to any of them as crazy...THAT I can say NEVER on... I have an EXTREMELY open mind about meeting new people... I do every single day I leave my house..but I'm not NAIVE to the fact that a lot of people pretend to be someone they are not online and there are a lot of SICK people in this world and the internet just happens to be their BFF....and when I say I wont meet them or give out my number, in no way shape or form am I PUSHING them away. I respond to all messages sent to me, even those ones from Hating Bitches, Horny Foreigners, Friendly girls, Chill guys and no to mention RACISTS so to say that I am pushing people away is a spineless statement...where else do I need to correct you???
OH...(BOUT EVERYTHING YOU HAVE EVERYTHING YOU NEED IN LIFE ALREADY)....LETS GET TO THIS COMMENT....Sweetheart...The Lord is my Sheppard, I shall not want.....I will say that I have everything I want in life (for the moment)...I have my family, I know who my friends are, I have my career (won't be stopping there), I have the car I want (for now)and I am content with all that I do and don't have...BUT that doesn't mean that I wont strive for more but my ass aint looking the "gift horse" in the mouth, you feel me? I dont see how any of THAT is ignorant so please do feel free to fill me in on that... and you're right aint nuttin but 23 yrs old... and as far as I'm concerned....thats alot more than most 23yrs old can say in this day and age...and no doubt I'm gonna meet PLENTY more people...but if you think I'm NOT gonna be selective about who, what and where I give my personal time out, you got another thing coming...Maybe you should send your "note comment" to all the parents out there trying to get their young kids not to fall victim to the internet predators out there and tell THEM they're ignorant and close minded....and for those parents who have already lost their children to those psycho hiding out online... why don't YOU tell THEM that THEIR children are gonna meet alot more people in life...try that and then HOLLA BACK'...
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