On one point, I will have to agree with Jonny's statement that people shouldnt be counting calories and all that, but I do not agree that if women DONT do that, their going to end up fat... I refuse to support, injest or purchase anything with the terms light, low-in, reduced, calorie-wise or diet on it.

As far as I'm concerned, its a lost cause to think that the ideals of the Fashion Industry are going to change from the perspective that size 2 and under is "perfect". Although I don't support their subliminal promtion of eating disorders and "starvation", I do see where the idea of the clothing being DISPLAYED at its best one someone with no shape...If there were "music video" models all over the run ways, who would be focusing on the clothes??

What I think a lot of girls and women fail to realize is the term "perfect" is just as subjective as the topic of religion...its something everyone has a stance on but when discussed in large groups can be cause for huge arguments... But since this is my forum and it is a choice to read, I'm going to share my views on the subject, you can agree, disagree or agree to disgree.

Some people aren't meant to be "skinny" or "thin"...for example Star Jones...She looks scary as hell skinny... I'm begging for her to put back on weight...Her head looks gigantically oblong...A beautiful woman nonetheless but she was much better off with some meat on her. Look at my girl Mo'nique...another prime example of a BBW (learned that term recently). She is drop dead gorgeous...at least I think so, and I think it would be a damn shame if she lost weight...Queen Latifa...

I live by 2 Motto's :

1. I live to eat, I dont eat to live...

2. A Muffin a day, keeps the skinny away...("muffins" can be substitued by many foods)

Back in the day, before all the modified foods came out there was a much lower obesity stat'. Why is that? Because people ate smaller portions and were more active. The modified foods fit in to the catagory of what I call "The Degradation of Fulfillment".. some of you may remember that note from my last profile. There is a joy, almost orgasmic; felt from eating food, GOOD food...Now my black people, this is where I believe "Niggaritus" comes from... and don't you feel that sleep you get from it is the BEST damn sleep ever...trust me, I had a SERIOUS case of that today...anyways.

I dont believe people should deprive themselves of good food and eat things that clearly cant be good for you because its MODIFIED... I asked the meat server in Sobey's today, "how do you have fat free" deli meat?? or Low in fat...HUH...It should be, kill the animal (the saddest n worst part...poor tings but I'm hungry), clean the meat, select the proper meat, package and distrubute...where does the fat freeing process come in and how is that done exactly??? I DONT SUPPORT IT...

Give me flavour, joy, nutrients, the fat my body needs to consume and burn...everyone needs to consume a certain amount of fat... and coast... excercise...SEXercise....there is no excuse for being inactive...And on a more direct reference to Jonny's note...I dont think that you'll automatically be FAT because you're not consuming those things...For some people its genetic and for others its lifestyle... Regardless its not impossible to lose weight without those "foods". Women and girls need to logically think about what "perfect" is for THEM because it may look right on someone and not somone else...once again...Star Jones...and if they want to get to a different place whether its gaining weight or losing it, they need to go about it in a healthy way. If you want cleanse, which are VERY good for you, I do them myself, go see a licensed Naturopathic Doctor...They're not that expensive, some are covered under your benefits at work and you feel like a new person afterwards. ANYWAYS.

All I'm trying to say is (and I'm sure ya'll got this) EFF diet foods, EFF modified foods...real food ONLY... enjoy food, with the state of life in impoverished parts of the world, food out here is a privilege, meant to be enjoyed, savoured, experienced, desired... you can very much equate food to sex...and with that, I'm gone.